Find your personal and professional boundaries.
It is a lovely morning towards the beginning of July. Yet you wake up feeling unusually drained. Your body feels weighted down with stress and anxiety. Your mind is cluttered with a never-ending to-do list. You realize you are neglecting your well-being by pushing forward relentlessly. You believe that the loftiness of your mission justifies your disregard for your personal needs.
But today is different. Clarity hits as you struggle to get out of bed and start your day. You realize that, in your quest to make a difference, you are forgetting to take care of the person driving that change – yourself.
Nurturing self-care is the cornerstone of long-term career success. It is through intentional living that you lay the foundation for enduring achievements. To shield yourself from burnout, embrace the art of saying yes to your needs and well-being.
By prioritizing self-care, you empower yourself to thrive and sustain the momentum needed to fulfill your mission with unwavering meaning and impactful results.
Finding the Right Balance
You aspire to change the world. You want to uplift others and achieve meaningful outcomes. However, you will likely compromise your goals if you fail to balance your work with your other life priorities.
Identify Your Priorities
First, you must determine what is most important to you outside work. Then you can allot your time and energy to your personal needs as well as your career.
If you constantly get absorbed in your work, identifying your priorities and maintaining a healthy balance can be challenging. The lines between professional and personal life blur, and you may need help defining what truly matters to you outside your professional endeavors.
One way to regain clarity around personal priorities is to engage with someone who can challenge you. Seek support and diverse perspectives.
Could you arrange meaningful conversations with trusted friends, mentors, or coaches who can provide guidance and offer different points of view? They can help you gain clarity by asking thought-provoking questions and challenging your assumptions.
An outside voice can illuminate possibilities and help you rediscover what truly matters to you.
Recognize Your Boundaries
Of course, you should set and communicate your boundaries to others by establishing clear expectations for your availability, workload capacity, and preferred modes of engagement.
However, the more difficult challenge may lie within your inner life. Are your expectations for yourself healthy?
Many find it easy to lose track of the line between their careers and the other parts of their lives.
Know this: you will likely thrive long-term if you know where work and career stop and the rest of your life begins. You are more than your career.
In an article in The Atlantic, author Derek Thompson points out that your career is only an eighth of your life. He claims that most people need to understand themselves beyond what they do for a living.
Likewise, psychologist Janna Koretz writes in a Harvard Business Review article that identifying too closely with your career makes you vulnerable to an identity crisis should you get laid off, burn out or retire. She argues for the importance of building a balanced and robust identity.
To do so requires understanding the boundaries between your career and other parts of your life.
Engage in Radical Self-Care
You may need to figure out where to start to achieve balance because the world constantly demands your attention and energy. Nevertheless, find the will to think beyond traditional notions and explore a fresh take on self-care.
While standard advice to exercise and engage in hobbies is fine, now is the time to embrace radical self-care. This transformative approach encompasses physical well-being and mental, emotional, and spiritual nourishment.
Embrace Discomfort and Growth
Contrary to much of the popular advice about self-care, it isn't always about bubble baths and indulgence; often, it's about growth and pushing yourself into new territories.
Embrace discomfort as a catalyst for personal renewal and evolution. Challenge yourself to enter the unfamiliar and venture onto uncharted paths.
Take on challenges that stretch your limits and require learning new skills or knowledge.
By adopting growth-oriented self-care, you expand your horizons and unlock hidden potential.
Cultivate Self-compassion and Acceptance
Self-care goes beyond pampering; it's about cultivating self-compassion and acceptance. Accept your flaws, celebrate your strengths, and practice kindness toward yourself.
Treat your inner conversations with care and replace self-criticism with self-encouragement. Nurture a loving relationship with yourself, fostering a foundation of self-worth and acceptance.
Listen to Your Intuition
Deep within, your intuition holds the key to understanding your needs. Practice tuning to your inner voice and honoring its guidance.
Trust your instincts, make decisions aligned with your values, and create a life that resonates with your desires.
By listening to your intuition, you empower yourself to shape a self-care practice that is uniquely yours.
Say Yes to Yourself
When you say yes to yourself, you create a positive ripple effect beyond your well-being. By nurturing your growth and happiness, you become a source of inspiration and empowerment for others.
Your renewed energy and passion will show up to those around you, fostering a culture of self-care and balance within your team or organization.
Remember, you may become a model for others when you care for yourself.
Picture self-care as the fuel that powers your purpose. Just as a car needs gasoline, you need balance to keep your passion and energy alive. Take the time to identify the activities that rejuvenate your mind, body, and spirit.
By saying yes to yourself, you allow yourself to evolve, learn, and grow, allowing your purpose to flourish and impact lives in ways you may have never imagined.
Nurturing your purpose is not a sprint; it's a lifelong journey. Embrace the ups and downs, the challenges, and the growth opportunities along the way.
