Everyone experiences a lack of motivation at some point in their life. Whether you’re having a hard time finding a sense of motivation to do your laundry or work on the business pitch you’ve been thinking of, we all get into slumps.
But we can all learn to identify what causes a lack of motivation in daily life and how to help ourselves get back on track.
Understanding how motivation works
You developed strategies to increase your sense of motivation a long time ago. You didn’t even realize it, but they formed at a young age — long before you entered the workforce. Here are three examples to reflect on to better understand motivation.
Being motivated by “adults” no longer works when you are one
Did your parents or teachers yell at you to convince you to complete your daily tasks when you were young? Parents or teachers motivating you by punishing or reprimanding you if you didn’t meet their expectations isn’t sustainable in adulthood. This is extrinsic motivation.
But now that you’re an adult and you can’t get detention or be grounded, nobody is pressuring you the same way. This could be why you’re having a hard time finding motivation.
Being a people-pleaser undermines your motivation
Are you a people pleaser? Do you lack motivation? Little do you know, those things are related. If your motivation only turns on when you’re trying to do something for other people, you won’t have any left for yourself.
Even if you think you’re just a great helper, you’re training yourself to put others before your well-being.
Social media consumes your motivation
As you scroll through posts and posts, your need for self-esteem could be suggesting that you need to be more like people you see online. The images and lives shown are curated and often unrealistic. They may seem unreachable. Rather than motivate you, social media can be demotivating.
Even if you are motivated by what you see, the time lost can still cause you to lose motivation. Also, if you rely on comparison, when you take a break from social media, that motivation could be gone.
What causes a lack of motivation?
It’s okay that your previous motivators don’t work for you anymore. This means you’re experiencing some personal development, and that’s good. It’s important to understand that no matter why you’re experiencing low motivation, there will always be strategies and people to help you find motivation again.
A few people more than happy to help are the coaches at BetterUp. We want to be there for you regularly to help your well-being and learn how to unlock your motivation again. To learn more about BetterUp, click here.
Everyone experiences a lack of motivation in different ways. What hinders some may not be an issue at all to others. The first step to beating your procrastination is to identify your motivation problems.
Think about which ones apply the most to you. Here are six causes for lack of motivation:
Spreading yourself too thin
Burnout is real. When you have too many things on your to-do list, it doesn’t encourage you to get them done. Your procrastination can stem from feeling overwhelmed with your daily tasks. It doesn’t matter if you’re working from home and think you have plenty of time to hustle; your energy and level of motivation can be exhausted from your couch, just like the office.
Doubting yourself
When you doubt your abilities, you don’t feel like your completed tasks are done right. It can be a struggle to feel that sense of motivation to get started. Try to tell yourself some positive affirmations to help you get off the right foot. Think about the qualities and characteristics that you love about yourself. Even if it’s not work-related, think about how you deserve to keep trying to achieve your goals.
Mental health issues
Low motivation can be a common symptom of depression, anxiety, and other mental health issues. You can practice self-help and self-care as much as you can, but you may find that seeking professional help is more helpful for your emotions. Online therapy is beneficial, especially during the COVID-19 pandemic. Just know that you’re not alone, and you have lots of loved ones who want to see you receive the best help.
Lack of commitment or unclear motivation
Take a step back and think about how dedicated or passionate you are about your work right now. Do you agree to do these tasks because you feel obligated? Identifying where your to-do list decreases your motivation helps you know where to add some spice. (And by spice, we mean something fun that gives you incentive and energy to complete your tasks).
Bad attitude and negative self-talk
Things don’t always go the way we hoped, but that doesn’t mean you’ll stay in a rut forever. Focusing on bad things deters you from accomplishing tasks, and it can’t control you forever. You can be upset, but a lasting bad attitude will ruin your motivation unless you actively try to change it.
Uncertain goals
You may think you have specific goals in mind, but are they encouraging your motivation levels? Giving yourself clear directions is essential. Without them, vague ideas will fade over time. You can’t just say you want to eat healthier. You need to be specific about what you want to achieve and outline precisely how you’re going to do that.
How can you get back on track?
Now that you know what can cause a lack of motivation, you need to learn techniques to start finding your motivation again. Repeating positive affirmations will only take you so far.
Each tip may not be for you, but try and find at least one that you can start practicing:
- Listen to podcasts that share positive, encouraging stories.
- Surround yourself with people in your life who are also working on goals and share progress and challenges.
- Give yourself incentives or rewards for accomplishing tasks.
- For every task you do that you don’t like, do something that makes you happy.
- Break your to-do list into manageable sections.
- Make your tasks into habits in your daily routine.
- Get outside for a walk to center your focus.
- Be kind and compassionate to yourself.
- Argue the opposite when you think negative thoughts.
How to boost your lack of motivation
Boosting your motivation can be achieved through various methods, each person is unique and what works for one might not work for another. Here are some general strategies that might help:
Set clear, well-aligned goals
Having a clear and specific goal can provide direction and give you a reason to stay motivated. Bonus points if you can tie your goals to your values or a sense of purpose to keep going. Break down large goals into smaller, manageable tasks to make them seem less overwhelming. Plus, once you complete a goal, the dopamine reward can be a powerful motivator to keep going with your to-do list.
Visualize success
Picturing yourself achieving your goals can serve as a powerful motivator. Visualize the process, not just the end result, which can make your goals feel more real and attainable.
Use positive affirmations
Positive self-talk can help you stay motivated by reducing self-doubt and fostering a positive mindset. Remember that your lack of motivation isn’t laziness. It's likely stemming from a larger pattern. Try cutting yourself some slack and using positive affirmations to build yourself up.
Stay organized
A loss of motivation can quickly come from a chaotic workstation. Physical clutter can become mental clutter. A clean and organized work or living space can reduce distractions and make it easier to focus on tasks, which can increase motivation.
Also, work on time management. Try various strategies, like the Pomodoro Method or time blocking, to stay organized and break your tasks up into manageable pieces. This can help you stay motivated and finish the task.
Maintain a healthy lifestyle
Motivation (and a lack thereof) touches various areas of life. From work satisfaction to energy levels and even food choices–they all feed into one another. Taking care of your body can help give you a boost. Regular exercise, a balanced diet, and adequate sleep can amp up your energy levels and overall mood, which can, in turn, enhance your motivation.
Practice mindfulness
Being present and engaged in the current moment can help you stay focused and motivated. Mindfulness practices like meditation can help cultivate this skill. You don’t have to venture out or rework your schedule too much to make space for mindfulness. Deep breathing apps, guided meditation videos, and on-demand virtual yoga classes can all help you stay grounded.
Find a motivation buddy
Having someone to share your goals and progress with can provide additional motivation. This could be a friend, family member, or mentor. You might also want to seek out a mental health professional or a certified life coach to help you recognize habits, develop helpful strategies, and offer supportive feedback on your progress.
Reward yourself
Giving yourself a reward when you reach a milestone or complete a task can provide an incentive and boost your motivation. It will also build your self-confidence knowing that you can achieve the goals you set your mind to.
Stay persistent
Developing self-compassion will prove invaluable on your journey to gaining more consistent motivation. Try to remember that setbacks are part of the process. Don't let failure demotivate you. Learn from your mistakes and keep going.
Remember, motivation is not a constant state, but rather it fluctuates based on various factors. It's normal to have periods of low motivation. The key is to not let these moments deter you from your goals.
FAQs about motivation
Are you wondering about other common questions people lacking motivation ask?
What’s the importance of having a challenging job to feel motivated?
Without any challenges, you won’t have anything new to work toward. If all of your tasks are easy, you won’t have any incentive to do better. Regularly throwing in a challenge can motivate you to learn something new, sharpen your skills, and try new experiences.
What things affect my motivation?
Plenty of things can affect your motivation. The weather, people around you, how hungry you are, and more impact your motivation levels. Pinpointing what impacts you the most is challenging, but it can help you get back on track. Next time you lack motivation, pay attention to your surroundings.
How can I help someone that’s feeling unmotivated?
One of the best things you can do for someone lacking motivation is to support them when and how they need you. If they’re struggling against a mental illness, you can suggest seeking professional help. If they need someone to hold them accountable for their daily tasks, you can do that too. Show up for them in the ways that suit them; everyone’s needs are different.
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